First of all i must say i am sharing it with any one who is experiencing challenges in their marriage that makes them question is it worth or should i go. I am learning so much from both books and i am grateful that you followed the Lord and kept to your first love in ministry. Although i must admit that at first i didn't believe i could even be part of the problem because i was doing my best to be the wife he needed. Then the its your fault phase came into play and that broke me when i realized that not only could i be part of the problem in some of the instances it was my fault. at this point things began to change because going to God was no longer about my husband or marriage was first about me then all these things were added to my life. in short this is a life changing book not only in marital relationships but also with the most important person and bedrock of it all God. Continue to do what you have been blessed to do and dont stop walking in God and with God. thank you.